Marital Intimacy

Marital intimacy is a very special thing. Exclusive sexual intimacy makes sex more emotional and brings the couple closer together. Sex in marriage is very bonding. Husband and wife should be able to self-disclose during sex in a non-critical way. Communication is very important and that is why you must be able to feel safe, loved, and comfortable with your spouse. All that being said, marital intimacy is worth the wait because the more people you have sex with, the harder and harder it becomes to attach to someone because you lose trust in people more and more. My professor said, "You can never get enough of what you don't need because what you don't need can't satisfy you." This is true for a lot of things, but especially for sex. Sex can be a very special thing as long as it is with the right person, under the right circumstances (in marriage), at the right time.